Orthogonality, measured
Orthogonal is a number
"Q is orthogonal" is a claim about a measurable quantity, ‖QᵀQ − I‖, and on the eight-by-eight Hilbert matrix two standard algorithms return 10⁻¹⁵ and 1 for it. The one that returns 1 still reconstructs the matrix perfectly, which is why nothing warns you.
Two Gram–Schmidts
One argument changes. Classical Gram–Schmidt projects the original column onto each previous direction; modified projects what is left of it. In exact arithmetic the coefficients are identical. In floating point they differ by eight orders of magnitude in the thing that matters.
A reflection cannot stop being one
Householder QR holds orthogonality at 10⁻¹⁵ whatever the condition number of the matrix, and Gram–Schmidt does not. The reason is not that it is more careful. It is that its Q is built from unit vectors, and rounding a unit vector gives a different reflection rather than a broken one.